We've been in an LDR ( long distance relationship ) for more than 1 year and 6 months. Only for the first 3 months, she remained silent about everything. After that, she kept telling that we should somehow meet. Meeting her wasn't child's play.
She lived in a different city. Around 10 hours train journey from my place. In total, it was 15 hours journey (one way) from my place to her.
From what you've read now, it might sound easy. But trust me, it wasn't!
- She had no excuse to meet me. Her house was 1 hour 38 minutes away from the venue we decided to meet, and she had no excuse to tell her father.
- I had never traveled alone. This was my first alone train journey.
- I lacked appropriate funds to get a hotel to stay in the journey. After paying my employees and assistant, I didn't have enough funds to get a hotel.
- She lived in a small city, and there was 99% chance of someone spotting us together and reporting it to her father.
- She lived far from the venue and had to arrange a ride to come there.
- and much more.
So, after a lot of indirect taunts from her(like the one mentioned above), we decided to plan a meet. We called it MissionMarch. So, here is #missionmarch in a nutshell.
#MissionMarch Highlights
15th March 2017 - I left for her city with a bag pack carrying things like blanket, wallet, face wash, perfume, medicines, water bottle, some food, and notebook, books, and pen. It was so un-usual to see my town in night time under lights. I left at 7:00pm, reached station at 7:30pm and waited for train on platform for 2 hours. Finally boarded train at 9:15pm, it departed at 9:30pm.
16th March : 8:00 am - I reached her city station. The smell, the nature, everything was so old there. I took an auto to my guesthouse. As soon as I reached guest house, she told me she might be reaching early due to the availability of vehicle. I washed my face, ate some chips and dosed for 30 minutes only to be get waked up by her call. She was at the venue (which was 15 minutes away from my guest house). Upon her call, I left for venue and meanwhile, talked with her on the phone as I approached the venue.
She stood outside the mall in pink dress. Hair, no-tied, with a handbag in her hand, she had dressed up in hurry, she was talking with me on phone and looking the other way. Finally, I waved my hand and she came. We entered the venue and went to the food court. This was the first time I was seeing her in person. We took movie tickets and sat in the food court. We talked about random things, meanwhile I was caressing her thighs sometimes as we talked. Finally our movie began and we went inside the hall.
After the movie, she took me to pizza place and we ate a non-veg pizza and drank cold-drink. After this, we went back to venue and went in horror house. It was sort of horror place, although we used it to get romantic. After we were out, she called her brother and returned home. I returned to guest house.
From there it was just me waiting for the train and getting back to my place.
My words: The journey was worth the risk(and lies). Both of us had to tell a hell lot of lies to our respective families in order to make this meetup possible. She gifted me a watch. After so much time, we finally had a day together(for the first time). She wanted to see me outside mobile phone, and I did it for her.
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